I was having trouble falling asleep Wednesday night, so naturally around 1 o’clock in the morning, I was perusing an app on my phone, where like minded individuals met up for like minded activities. I usually start conversations with, “Hey! How are you?” or “What are some things you are into?”. However, this night of all nights, since I was not feeling like myself, after matching up with a handsome gentlemen, I started relaying my sleeping problem, in hopes talking to someone about it would help. Instead of leaving, or asking in a cheesy way, the ways he could help, he stayed for some chit chat and asked about my day. After a while, he reminded me I should get some rest, and we said our goodnights. Of all the conversations I’ve had on that app, as explicit and sexual as they can be, that one was probably my favorite, and without a doubt, most intimate. I just felt very safe and close to him.