I [f]ucking love being degraded, but most guys I fuck don’t do it right. Then I met a [m]an who REALLY understood how to degrade me properly.

I fuck around a lot. I’ve always been attractive (don’t believe me? pics on profile. i’m 23 (20 when this story happened), a 34D and 5’10”. tell me you wouldn’t LOVE me to ride you), and I’ve usually had my pick of men or women in any number of hookup pools. It helps my cause that I’m totally obsessed with sex. My personal favorite role to play is the femme domme because I’m damn good at it, but if I’m being honest, the reason I tend to default to it is because…

…when I tell guys I *really* like to be degraded, they… don’t know how to handle it. I assume this is most guys’ thought process:

*What, the woman in front of me wants me to… insult her? But she’s so domineering… it would be like insulting a teacher.…*
or
*Okay, well, I don’t want to go *too* far. I don’t know what her limits are.*
or
*I have no idea how to do that.*

And it usually results in something like this:

“Uh, okay… you’re… such a slut. You like that, slut?”
Gawd, that’s cringe. Or this:
“You’re a dirty girl sucking my dick like that.”
I’m a *dirty girl*? What, do I need a bath? Is that the goddamn best you can do?