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[MF] As Good With His Hands As He Was His Cock

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**As Good With His Hands As He Was His Cock**

Hot-take that’s not really a hot-take, incoming! The “I can’t please my woman because I have a small cock,” is bullshit, and a complete cuck mentality. It’s not a reality, unless your partner decides to make it so.

My husband will never have an 8 inch cock. Let’s be real- he’ll never have a 5 inch cock, but that’s not the point. The point is every man’s cock is what it is and despite what the ads on shady sites tell you, there isn’t much you’re going to be able to do about it. Does size matter? Frankly, yes. Does it matter most? In my opinion, no. Read more »

[F] My Secret Sex Toy

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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My Secret Sex Toy

Sometimes a girl just needs a little alone time, and while my husband and I have a closet-safe’s worth of toys, most of them aren’t made for discreetness or use out of the bedroom. And you know, that whole, “alone time,” thing, which is virtually unavailable in a house full of people.

My best friend encouraged my naughtiness and suggested that I buy a Lovesense Dolce (formally “Quake”). It is a battery-operated, bluetooth, internal/external vibrator with an adjustable flex-neck which allows it to in my pussy, and on my clit at the same time. It is meant to be discreet. Originally, I was thinking I could maybe wear it in public, but I learned it’s not exactly quiet. On the plus side, it is very powerful. Read more »

[FM] My Bull Added Me To His Roster, Pt 1

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.
These are my stories.
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**[FM] My Bull Added Me To His Roster, Pt 1**

Remember, Thomas? My last story was how he changed my husband and made him realize how much cuck he had in him. This story is how Thomas tapped into my competitive nature and desire to please, to get anything he wanted.

A quick reminder about Thomas, the bull that every hotwife and cuck couple wants to find: handsome, respectful, talented, and VERY blessed below the belt. He is definitely in the top 0.01% of men for cock length and he knew how to use it. He was in his early 50’s and very fit for his age, his body built muscularly versus lean. He was 6’2” and kept a trimmed graying beard and a full head of hair, which he kept high and tight, with a little length on top. In short, a total Daddy. Read more »

[MFM] The Bull My Husband Most Desires, Pt 2

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**The Bull My Husband Most Desires, Pt 2.** [(Part 1 here)](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/xx8b74/mfm_the_bull_my_husband_most_desires_pt_1/) Read more »

[MFM] The Bull My Husband Most Desires, Pt 1

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**The Bull My Husband Most Desires, Pt 1.**

Thomas was the bull that every hotwife and cuck couple wants to find: handsome, respectful, talented, and VERY blessed below the belt. He is definitely in the top 0.01% of men for cock length and he knew how to use it. On top of that, he checked all of our preferred demographic boxes perfectly. He was in his early 50’s and very fit for his age, his body built muscularly versus lean. He was 6’2” and kept a trimmed graying beard and a full head of hair, which he kept high and tight, with a little length on top. I fight my love/hate relationship with some of the words used in sexuality and the lifestyle, but it fits – A total Daddy. Read more »

[F] A Non-Exhaustive (but Pretty Hot List) of What Bulls Get, and Hubs Doesn’t

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**A Non-Exhaustive (but Pretty Hot List) of What Bulls Get, and Hubs Doesn’t**

This post contains tough truths, and while it’s hot (it sure turns me on), it comes with realities and emotions that a couple in the lifestyle has to deal with. When my husband is horny, he LOVES that this list exists and that there are things only my bulls get, and only they can do for me.

On the flip side, when he sighs that deep post orgasm breath and then has to sit in the post-nut clarity of truth, some of these really hurt. It would really gut him to find out about the 3 on this list he doesn’t know about. Read more »

[F] My Road to Confidence

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**My Road to Confidence**

I’ve always considered myself pretty average. I never felt like guys looked my way but I have always been petite, large busted, with long blonde hair and dark olive skin. I know with that description how silly it sounds to say I had no confidence, but after a few kids, I didn’t feel desirable. I know this is how many moms feel.

And yes, my husband said I was hot, but all husbands say that to the only readily available pussy in their life, right? I know that’s not exactly true, nor is it remotely fair to husbands, but I can’t help but think that’s one of the tough realities to marriage, and long term monogamy. True or not, the praises and admiration just don’t carry the same weight, if any, from a long-term partner. Read more »

[MFM] I Was the Prize (And Clear Winner) of the Gameday Bets.

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**I Was the Prize (And Clear Winner) of the Gameday Bets.**

I wasn’t planning on telling this story next, but in light of this month’s contest I figured I’d type it out. This is well after my first story of my first time being a hotwife. This is more than 2 years later, after we were more experienced in the lifestyle, had a regular bull and an established situation. Some of that should be obvious, but I wanted to be clear we’d generally not invite a bull over to our house to hang, especially with others around. Also – it got a little long, but I can’t cut anything now!. Enjoy. – Jess. Read more »

[MFM] My first time as a hotwife.

I’m a 38 year old wife, mother of three kids, living in middle-America. A real woman. I could be your neighbor. You’d never know, which is kind of the point. We have no clue what happens behind closed doors, up and down our street. I had a fairly popular (NoFans) Reddit account, where my husband and I shared the hot moments and sexy pics, but when you focus on the lifestyle and kink, you don’t get the full picture.

These are my stories.

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**The First Time.**

I’ve always worked. I had my first job at 14, and since then have always had at least one regular way I was making money. I worked through college and post graduation joined the rat race. I was good at my job and quickly reached what I thought was the pinnacle of my career, only to have the corporate machine topple it all over and lay me off through restructuring. Almost immediately, I was unemployed, frustrated, depressed, and lonely. Read more »