So here is a true Craigslist success story from a few years ago. To set the scene I was 45 at the time, just an average guy who is lucky enough to have done some swinging. In 2014 I saw an ad from a guy on the north side of town near me. He had a submissive girlfriend who wanted to have her first three way. She apparently loved anal and wanted to try DP.
I ended up meeting the guy at a local irish pub for a beer where we discussed it, his name was Rob. The gal was a nurse named Kat, redhead, about 40. She had a few kids at home but her body was still tight. She was married to somebody else but Rob told me that her husband was abusive and they were headed toward divorce. Rob was strictly her Dom/fuckbuddy, they weren’t really dating in the traditional sense. Their relationship was mostly her getting off working the night shift and go straight to his place and get banged out before she had to go home.