Back in my late twenties while I was drifting in a 7-years relationship I started a flirt with a colleague who had just been moved from an other subsidiary. She had a long-time boyfriend there as well.
After many months of sex talks, she gradually became an obsession for me. She was the first woman I met who looked very aware of her sexuality and explained me lots of the so-called secrets about women’s mind mechanisms. The funny thing is that I used those mechanisms “against her” to take her to bed. Having talked so much It was like I already knew all the buttons to push in order to turn her on.
But it took me a lot. More than I had planned. As a matter of fact after a few months she was sent back to her city. Not that we still didn’t have our chances as she came over periodically. But she was a hell of a teaser. She would drive you crazy being able to take the game as far as getting half-naked and stopping right before anything would happen. It was unnerving but I loved it so much. It was maybe because I was totally in love with her and willing to accept anything she could give me. Moreover I knew I had to play it cool otherwise I would have lost her.