If there is one thing I’ve learned from the relatively small assortment of women I’ve been with is that they can be wildly different in how they experience orgasms. It’s interesting how different everyone is in this regard, but it also can be very frustrating because no one talks in detail about these differences and at least in the USA we don’t encourage people to talk about their sexual desires with each other, if anything it’s the opposite. Guys don’t get an instruction manual on how different each woman can be so it’s all learn as you go and then when you want to learn you sometimes have to pry the information out of your partner. Mainly I realized you can’t have any assumptions about each new partner.
One of my early partners when I was younger was this petite 20 year old brunette with a pretty face and an average body probably about 5’5″ in height while I’m 6’1″. When we first got together she had never had an orgasm. She hadn’t ever given herself one and the one guy she had intercourse with before me was just to check off the box of not being a virgin.