I am an 24 year old, 6’2” Asian guy living in modest, yet dinky Pac Heights studio in San Francisco. For most Asian guys in SF, dating is tough. So I spent a lot of time perusing the online sites from Craigslist to OkCupid. On OkCupid, I found a profile of a white girl that intrigued me. She was 5’7” and a redhead from New York. It looked like she was an art student. I thought she was a bit geeky but still attractive. I thought to myself, why not give it a shot? I messaged her and didn’t think anything of it. Two days later, to my surprise, she responded back. We had a friendly online chat and I asked her out to an Indian restaurant on Fillmore Street. She said yes.