So the first one was 4 years ago with a girl I’ve been friends with for 17 years. (I’m 26) I’d never looked at her in that way before that night.
We were out with a group of friends at a bar, slowly as the night wore on the other girls left (as usual) so it was just us and a few of the guys. She had a thing for one of them but he seemed likely to go for someone else who was in the bar, despite her flirting. We were all sat around drinking and laughing away from the dj and dance floor at the other end and as he got up she grabbed his arm, pulled him down between us, leaned over him and kissed me. I was completely shocked, horrendously drunk and a bit turned on.
So, that effectively grabbed his attention… from that point on the group of guys we were with were encouraging us to kiss again. We did a few times but we were laughing so much that I didn’t think she was feeling remotely turned on and I was having a laugh with my best friend.