I’m in my mid-30s, and am a plain, unattractive woman. I’ve always been the quiet, shy type, and so I didn’t enter my first relationship until I was in my late 20s and was a virgin until I was 30. That doesn’t mean I have no interest in sex though, and so that five year relationship of regular sex was exactly what I needed. When we broke up, I didn’t really miss my ex-boyfriend (it was a messy break-up), but I did miss the sex, and as a shy, plain woman as I mentioned who hadn’t had any encounters beyond that one boyfriend I wasn’t sure where to turn.
In a fit of frustration I did something crazy, and signed up to a hook-up web site. I was immediately bombarded by messages and was overwhelmed, but ended up picking out a few people to talk to – one of them in particular surprised me, as he was a good-looking and confident 18 year old who seemed like he could get any girl he wanted. We talked a lot, and a couple of days ago I met him… and his best friend too.