When I first came to college my Freshman year, I had just broken up with a long-term boyfriend, knew nobody on campus aside from my roommate, and was pretty desperate for friends. I tried to join a few clubs, but they all seemed to have established cliques already that I was too shy to break into. Finally I joined anime club, and despite only being familiar with attack on titan and a few ghibli films, everyone there was pretty welcoming. I became friends with four guys there and started hanging out with them outside of club meetings. Aside from being generally a bit awkward and inexperienced with talking to girls, they were all really nice and seemed genuinely interested in being my friend.
One of the guys, let’s call him Jake, had a solo dorm with no roommate, so we would all usually hang out there after classes and watch movies, anime, or play video games together. One night we had all been watching a movie and drinking, mostly just chatting over the movie, when one of them admitted he was still a virgin. This led them all to start talking about how none of them had had sex before, and then all of us talking about what we had done. I of course had lost my virginity already to my high school boyfriend and admitted that, after which it had gotten a bit quiet. Afterwards, one of the guys admitted he hadn’t even touched a girl’s boob before, which for some reason really surprised me. It must have been the alcohol, but I offered right then and there to let him touch my boobs.