Tom and I have hooked up a couple times in different situations, but the last time got awkward and he started dating someone, Tom is also a bit older than me.
It had been a few months since we’d even talked at work, and one day a few people were drinking at the bar near our office, and Tom was there. We started talking, apparently he’d met this girl, they’d gotten engaged, and broke it off all in a few months. Felt bad for him cause he’s a genuinely nice guy.
So he starts telling me about how one of the things he liked about her was she was really into swinging and brought him into the lifestyle. He was clearly not new to the party scene which we kinda proved to each other, but he said he really missed it (I swear this is appropriate for this sub).
We started talking about where they went and what happened and she was very open about being with other couples and enjoyed it and they went to a local place here a few times over the last few months. He was saying it was a young crowd and has a real party atmosphere. We were a bit flirty, but I ended up going home alone.