UPDATE: [M]y wi[F]e and I try to work out problems. Eventually leads to a swapping situation that I later learned was meant to be a cuckolding type of situation, but it didn’t turn out how they thought.

Well, this has been a hell of a ride.

Quick recap for anyone who doesn’t remember or hasn’t read the original. Wife makes friend with male co-worker, winds up fooling around with him behind my back, decides to set up a situation that was conveyed to me as a double date/intro to swinging situation that turned out to be a set up to try and cuckold me, doesn’t go as planned. Honestly, read the original if you want a blow for blow. I am typing this up as more of a way to process everything.

[M]y wi[F]e and I try to work out problems. Eventually leads to a swapping situation that I later learned was meant to be a cuckolding type of situation, but it didn’t turn out how they thought.

Ok, this is still fairly fresh for me, so this may be more of a therapeutic post than a straight up sexy post. I am honestly not sure how to proceed from here. I am incredibly hurt, but also super excited and feeling very vindicated. I guess I need to lay the groundwork a bit first.

Wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our life has not been the smoothest as most older Millennials can sympathize with. No need to dig into all of that. Our life has been complicated by family drama from my family and her family has been minimally supportive, but also come with their own unique blend of stress. My wife, Debby, grew up on a fairly typical mid-western middle class family. She was the only child and her mom drilled into her the no sex before marriage idea. Debby and I went to school together and reconnected again in college. That is where we started dating which eventually led to our marriage.