I have been a lurker here but wanted to contribute. I hope you enjoy! Cheers,
We were both in our late 40’s when we (Randy and Carnal) met on a adulterer site. We began to trade messages (and a picture) explaining how we were both married a very long time and in dead bedrooms for the last number of years. Randy is a Caucasian businessman and Carnal is in the medical field & originally from the Caribbean. The messages became slightly lewd but nothing overly too dramatic when we finally agree to meet at a coffee shop for a weekday at 10 am.
Randy waited patiently as his date was 15 mins late…then 30….finally at 45 mins late a tall dark skinned lady with long black hair enters the coffee shop in a very tasteful sun dress clutching her purse like a four year old holding a stuffy when they are scared shitless! I smile and stand to give her a hug and all I am able to obtain is a rigid unsmiling side hug! As the kids say “the struggle was real”.
Over the next hour, I had a one sided conversation about pretty much anything that came to mind….non sexual of course! After the hour, she finally started to loosen up and we agreed we would go to a park to walk and talk. At the park, I brought out a little picnic and blanket so we could find a comfortable spot to sit. We continue to share a little bit more and Carnal begins to open up more.