In my opinion, the most exciting part of a new relationship is around the fifth or sixth date mark (give or take) when you’ve slept together a few times, and you start to open up more about kinks and turn-ons that you all may share and were too embarrassed to bring up at first.
Especially if you’ve already established good chemistry during vanilla sex, adding things on top of that solid foundation can be a really incredible experience.
That’s exactly what happened with me and Lynn.
A little about us. At the time I was 28. I’m 5-7 and slender but athletic; I’m a distance runner.
Lynn was a little bit shorter than me, and left little doubt to her Manhattan/Jewish roots. And I mean that as a compliment. She had beautiful dark hair, a cute face and was the right amount of curvy in the right places.
We met on a dating app and hit it off pretty quickly. Had a couple of standard dates and then things started to get physical. She loved having her nipples played with and her ass smacked and that’s about as far as we strayed for the first few times we fucked.