If some of you have read my (25F) previous post, I’ve recently jumped into the world of online dating, specifically tinder. I met my current FWB (Jake, 27M) on there in April, and we’ve been having regular sex since then. But there’s not much of a romantic connection, it’s purely physical (and amazing).
A few weeks ago I was swiping again, looking for I don’t even know what, maybe some excitement. I matched with this cute 27yr old guy, we shall name him Greg. I thought he was super cute, we texted, we went out for coffee (which was such a great date, we talked non stop). We kept texting, decided on a second date which was supposed to happen last night. Drinks at my place. I had bought things, cleaned my apartment, shaved myself, the whole package. Well, Greg goes ahead and cancels on me last minute. This bummed me out severely, since I had been looking forward to seeing him again and maybe making out a bit. My low self confidence rears its ugly head in these kinds of situations, my brain telling me well he obviously doesn’t like you.