My husband (38) and I (33) are having this years vacation at a cabin with your two kids who are 4 years and 4 months old. Ever since our seccond was born our sexlife has naturally taken a hit, so I suggested that we could spend every evening of our vacation in bed together.
Fair warning, this will be a little bit of a ramble because I feel like sharing. Also, English isn’t my first language. Sex part starts at **** if you want to skip!
My sex drive is strongly correlated to the amount of sleep I get, the baby sleeps in the bed next to me. In addition to that my hormones are still all over the place so sometimes I can be as horny as anything but I am still dry and completly unable to have sex. So even though the sex we do have is still very good, it’s also very rare (twice a week is amazing, usually lucky if it’s once) and very very quiet since the baby sleeps lightly.