I am in my early 30s and I am from India. I wanna tell you the story of losing my virginity at 23.
I was dating this girl (lets call her Shalini) from Chennai during my bachelors and we were in love. I dated Shalini for more than 5 years but we never had sex (we both were virgins). There was all this cultural barriers like “we should respect each other” and “we should only have sex after marriage”, etc. and I was naive to believe/follow all this.
After graduating and working for few months in India for an IT company, I moved to a European country for my masters. She moved to US as she decided to do her masters there. After she moved to US, we both became really jealous and we started making each other’s life miserable. Ultimately, we broke up when she told me that she had slept with a guy (a senior from our college). I was broken and I was in depression for 6 months.