Wife (Jess) and I are in our 30s, been married 15 years, and have 3 kids. She was a virgin when we started dating in High School, and has been a reserved, faithful wife for the duration of our wonderful (pretty typical) lives together. We have a fantastic marriage, and a healthy sex life. We have tried to keep things exciting in the bedroom, and have tried introducing new things over the years (bondage, dirty talk, role play, toys, porn, etc).
About 4 or 5 years ago, I started having fantasies of her being with another man (I’m sure it came from porn, or stories I had read). I just thought it would be so hot to see her getting fucked by another man. One of the main reasons was because she was so reserved, and I knew there was ZERO chance that it would ever happen.
So, I told her about this fantasy of mine one night. She thought I was crazy, and didn’t understand why I would ever want her to sleep with another man, so that was the end of that (or so I thought).