Why my still vanilla husband is withholding cock… [MF] Promise, it’s not a cliffhanger…

Don’t know if I’ve mentioned this before, but my husband has been practicing semen retention for a really long time. It’s just something he does. It started when he was a serious martial artist and used the practice to focus his chi. Over the years, he’s found that the ejaculating once is week offers the perfect balance. Seems like a random tidbit, but I assure you, it is important.

Prior to the post Valentine’s Day cock strike, we would usually have sex 1-3 times a day, nightly, and 2-3 mornings a week. We have our routine, a good time is had by all. Given that he allows himself to ejaculate once a week and our age, we don’t really bother with condoms or birth control anymore. When he cums, he cums in my ass. Not surprising since I love anal, but I mention this tidbit because it is equally important.

If you’ve seen any of my posts, you know that I wear a buttplug pretty much all day every day and my preferred plug weighs 1.3 pounds. When you wear a heavy ass buttplug day in and day out, your pelvic floor muscles get strong. And by strong, I mean really fucking strong. So strong that the last time we had sex with my buttplug in, I came so hard that I bruised his cock.

Still can’t figure out my maybe-still-vanilla husband’s kink it and it’s starting to piss me off [MF]

So, maybe it’s not orgasm denial. He’s now moved on to withholding his cock. Is that even a thing?!?!

Where did I leave off? Oh yes, two days ago. After it had been over 24 hours since my last orgasm. And he told me not to masturbate… no touching my clit, no vibrators and dildos. Small miracle that he let me keep my buttplugs. He knows better than to take those away. My buttplugs have been with me longer than he has.

I was good all day yesterday. I didn’t masturbate. I didn’t bust out my toy box. Just went about my day as per usual, albeit horny as fuck.

There were moments when I considered cheating… maybe I could use one of my largest buttplugs as a dildo. That wouldn’t be breaking the rules, right? Or maybe go old school and do a load of laundry just so I could sit on the washing machine as it vibrates?

Mundane day to day activities started feeling oddly arousing. Who knew that feeling the vibrations of a running snowblower could make me wet? Or potholes? Never been happier to see my tax dollars not in use.

I think I figured out my not-so-vanilla husband’s kink! [MF]

It’s been 24 hours since my last orgasm. The last time I had his cock was on Sunday (Valentine’s Day). The last time I had an orgasm was yesterday morning.

I am a super high libido person. A sensory seeker. I love to feel filled at all times. And most of all, I love to cum.

I’m fortunate in that I’ve never really struggled with being able to have an orgasm. Maybe it’s happens easily enough that I’ve taken it for granted all these years?

Our sex life is great. I mean, really great. We have sex at least daily, sometimes 2-3 times a day. He makes sure I experience all the orgasms. It’s like a game to him, making me cum over and over again. I know, I’m spoiled. ?

Yesterday morning, we woke up and he got out of bed to get ready for work. Without fucking me. We fuck every Monday morning. I was confused, but decided to take care of myself because I start every day off with an orgasm. Grabbed my Satisfyer and started going to town. He comes out of the bathroom, sees me masturbating, grabs my Lush from the nightstand, sticks it in my vagina, and starts playing around with patterns. OMG, it was so amazing, so fucking intense. [I had such a powerful orgasm.](https://i.imgur.com/a/JvSG6Eg.mp4)

My vanilla husband is slightly clueless [MF]

Today I learned that my husband didn’t know I’ve been wearing buttplugs out in public for the past 18 years. It’s not something I hide. It’s not like he hasn’t seen it.

He knows I love it when he plays with my ass. Hell, I love it when I play with my own ass. There is legit something in my ass at some point almost every single day. He knows this as well. Or so I thought.

He came home from work and we were talking about our days. I sat down on one of our kitchen barstools and my plug clunked on the wood surface. He kinda smirked and said, “Oh, you’re wearing your buttplug again?”. I nodded and we continued our conversation.

He finished getting dinner prepped. I was about to head out to pick the kids up from their extracurriculars. He looked up from the stove and asked if I was going out plugged. My response, “Well, duh?”. He looked genuinely shocked. He asked if I ever wore my buttplug around the kids. My response? “All the fucking time.”

My vanilla husband keeps surprising me [MF]

It’s been almost a week since he plugged my ass and my pussy and teased me for hours.

Life has gone back to our usual routine. Fuck first thing in the morning, after we get home from work when kids are at their extracurriculars, before bed. My god he’s an amazing lover. I can’t get enough of him.

He was talking dirty to me last night and told me if I was a good girl and didn’t play with any toys today, he’d DP me tonight. OMFG, I was floored.

He DP’d me with a dildo in my pussy while he fucked my ass once before… back in 2005… and never since…

I was so excited I tossed and turned all night. I kept waking up and seriously must’ve masturbated at least 5 or 6 times.

Much to my disappointment, he left me hanging this morning. He ate my pussy until I was about to cum, and then left for the gym. Reminded me to be a good girl, no toys.

How I grew to love all things anal [MF]

If you’ve seen any of my pics, a good deal of them show me with a buttplug. It’s no secret, I spend a lot of time plugged. I carry on a good deal of my daily activities plugged. My husband indulges my love of all things anal. It makes me feel complete.

My first experience with anal wasn’t all that great. My boyfriend back in high school wanted to try anal about a year into our relationship. We were young, inexperienced (I was his first, he was my second) and completely and utterly clueless. Sex shops were 18+, we weren’t legal, so no porn or toys (yes, this was BEFORE the Internet). Attempts consisted of him trying to stick his dick in my ass and getting nowhere. Every so often, he would try to lube up with Vaseline. Results weren’t too much better. But, bless his heart, he kept trying over the course of our relationship. And then, on one acid fueled night, it happened. I have no real recollection as to what he did differently, but I don’t recall it being particularly painful, nor particularly memorable. After years of trying, it was very anticlimactic. We did wind up doing it a few more times, but it was never all that great. We wound up breaking up in college and going our separate ways.

My vanilla husband surprised me [MF]

I’m an exhibitionist. I post pics and videos of me with my toys every so often. He finds it cute but watching me stuff and stretch myself isn’t his thing. He’ll see a post here or there but it doesn’t do anything for him.

I developed a love for being plugged in public with my last serious relationship before I got together with my husband over 20 years ago. It was so intense sexually and she introduced me to so many things. She would order me to go to class plugged almost daily, fist me, sound my peehole and I loved it all.

My sex life is amazing. We fuck daily if not more. He makes me cum over and over again. And while he doesn’t join me when I’m stuffing myself with my toys, he does like to rub up against my butt when we’re out in public and I’m plugged. He knows how I love all things anal and will eat my ass until my legs shake and drop a huge load in my ass whenever I want it.