In the early days of my awakening, before I got married and so on, I had a couple of years of random sexual activities. I’m not the best looking of people nor the best endowed, and yet here we are. I’ve also been called “handsome” repeatedly, but being handsome is like the “nice guy” of lovers. I hate that label.
I’d been “dating” Marisa (not her real name), and I use dating in sarcastic air quotes because Marisa wasn’t into introducing me to her friends and/or family. I knew what was going on. I was 30 and she was 21. I want to stress that I’ve never been the kind of guy who sleeps with women specifically because they are younger. Until I met my wife I was all about picking spots and finding women who were into me. I’m 100% sure there was nothing wrong with my approach.