This is long but it’s worth it (acknowledging my bias). I have a cheating kink and used to go on Craigslist personals looking for women–especially married ones–to chat with. I came across a post by a woman who was in a marriage that wasn’t working and wanted to meet a man online to indulge her feelings, fantasies, and make her feel as if she’d been “won.” Apparently, my response won her over.
We chatted until we both passed out the first night, feeling out our chemistry, sharing fantasies, talking dirty, name-calling–she started calling me “Sir” and “Master.” The next day she sent me a picture of her lying in bed in a thong, holding a vibrator. She had told me she was a yoga teacher, but her body was sexier than I had anticipated and I let her know how I felt. I sent her a picture of me in just my boxer briefs in return. She asked if she could see “the rest of me.” I made her ask nicely and when she answered well, I sent her a picture of what she wanted to see. After that, she started calling me “Daddy.”