Earlier this year, a guy I was dating for a short period had, unknown to me, a warrant out for his arrest. While I was at his place one day bail enforcement agents forced entry.
It was a totally humiliating experience. I was just wearing panties and a bra at the time, but I had to kneel and put my hands behind my back so one of the agents could put me in handcuffs. I then waited on the sofa, handcuffed, while they interrogated me until my boyfriend arrived. When he did he was pinned to the floor and handcuffed as well. He was shouting at how they had me handcuffed half-naked which made it even more embarrassing.
I was let go but they took my boyfriend to jail. I was pissed at how humiliating it was, but also how he had lied to me.
I went to the court and saw him shuffle in, handcuffed, shackled and in an orange jumpsuit chained to the other prisoners. This man who claimed he was so big now looked so pathetic. I was pissed but also couldn’t help feel pity seeing him like that.