Some background: if you wanna see me, I have more than plenty pics in my post history. there’s a guy, let’s call him Tom (obviously not his name), that I met earlier this year through mutual friends. He has an overly flirty personality, and I instantly thought he was cute. Curly brown hair, always smiling, looks strong, not super tall (but has enough height on me so I don’t care). Things were flirty in the beginning, we started snapchatting after the first night, but nothing ever happened. Months pass, we become better friends, hang out sometimes (usually in groups). The more I talk to him, the more I develop a little crush on him. The problem was that he was flirty with everyone, so it was hard to tell if it’s me or just his personality. Summer comes and we hang out more than before, not often, but a good handful of times. His flirting became more obvious, light touching, some cuddling, inviting just me to hang out, etc, but still nothing happened. Usually I have no issues making a first move, but I wasn’t sure if we were just good friends.
Then two night ago, he drunk texted me. Random stuff, then asking me to come over to his friend’s house. I was exhausted and he was already hammered, so I decided not to, but definitely kept that in mind.