For some context, my boyfriend (26M) and I (26F) have been together for almost 2 years and we’re very much in love. We’ve always been faithful to each other, and he’s very into bondage, so kinkiness isn’t new territory for us.
I discovered this was a kink of mine about a year ago, but it took a couple months for me to broach the subject with my boyfriend. When I did, he was interested. We’d fantasize about it verbally during sex, which is how we confirmed that I was VERY into it. We talked during sex about making it a reality, but never really had a levelheaded sit-down conversation about the logistics of doing so.