I know it seems ridiculous, but I’m drawn to older men between the ages of 40 and 80. How do I go about dating a man that old? Where am I even going to find someone that’s that elderly than me? Of course, I feel embarrassed about this, which is why I’m using a disposable account. Would it be strange if I made a profile on Tinder and customized the age range to suit my needs? I’m concerned that someone I know will find out that I did it. I know this is simply odd all around. It’s not normal to be attracted to older men, but I am and I want to act on it. What would you do in my situation? I believe I have some form of sexual paraphilia. What dating advice would you give?