First, as always, feel free to ask questions and if I’m not comfortable answering for whatever reason, I won’t :)
A quick background on this whole situation but I’m not going to get into details for obvious reasons: I met this guy about 5 years ago on a project – we were working for the same company but on different teams. He left for another company shortly after the project wrapped up but then came back at the beginning of last year. He’s still on a different team but we work on a lot of the same projects so our paths cross regularly. He’s about 10 years older than me. Never married.
I was definitely attracted to him when we first met, but I never considered making a move because a) I was a different littlethirteen back then and b) I was brand new with the company and didn’t want to fuck anything up by sleeping with a colleague (yes, I know, the irony does not escape me). We kept in touch a bit while he was with the other company and we ran into each other randomly a handful of times, but up until this whole thing happened last week, we’ve only ever seen each other in work settings. That said, he’s always been one where I feel a little flush whenever he walks into the room.