I’m 48 and my FWB (who I shall call Mateo) is in his mid 50s. We dated for awhile (non monogamously but fairly seriously), and then for a variety of reasons I ended it. He said he would always be interested in a FWB situation and, because he and I had always had really amazing sexual chemistry, at one point I decided to take him up on the offer and we began seeing each other once or twice a month. I enjoy his company and he has amazing stamina for a man in his 50s.
For some background: we met on Fetlife. Mateo is an amateur photograph, who is very skilled in Shibari, and advertised on Fetlife that he was looking for female subjects for a Shibari photo project he was working on. I am an exhibitionist who likes being restrained (but had never had been with anyone truly skilled in the art of rope) and was intrigued. We met for drinks to discuss his project. He showed me some of his pictures (both his artistic ones and his NFSW ones). While nowhere near as skilled as he is in photography, I am also interested in it. I take a lot of wildlife photography. (And if you look through my profile content, you’ll see that another one of my favorite subjects is myself. Lol). We both kind of got turned on looking at each other’s pictures and I ended up going home with him. (I had never done this upon first meeting up with someone who I hadn’t talked too at all beforehand but he was just someone I felt I could trust. At the time I figured Mateo did it regularly but I later learned that he had only done it once before.)