A few years ago, I briefly dated a guy who I would later learn was pretty repressed when it came to sex. Turns out I had inspired him early on to do all kinds of shit to impress me. A few weeks in when we were exclusively dating, we had our first obstacle. He had kept in touch with a girl he had met and slept with casually while overseas and he explained to me that he had told her way before me that she could crash at his place while she toured the states (we live in a larger city.)
This obviously didn’t sit well with me and he tried to find her new accommodations but it was too last minute for her to get anything. I gave him fair warning I would need some extra care while she stayed over. Also, considering how he lived alone and I had a roommate, that also meant that sexy times would be on pause for awhile. I mean, things were doable at my place but being a tease, I spun some things my way and used it to my advantage.