Back when I first started to get into making adult content, I met a guy who I found mentally attractive. Eventually I saw what he looked like and found him physically attractive. The two things necessary for me to ever consider having a sexual relationship with anyone. I am very weary of meeting people in person that I met online.
He lived several states away. One day he mentioned he’d be visiting my state for a week. considering we had been chatting for a while and occasionally played games together. I asked he would like to come visit. This was way before I ever join reddit. back then I only ever posted stuff on Snap. Our conversations were never sexual, and he rarely hit on me. One of the main reasons he managed to stand out.