He wants to buy me [F] a dildo as an apology gift

So I have been texting with this dude I found on a sex forum. I think there is chemistry, he is gorgeous but might as well be a catfish. A little bit of paranoia is healthy.
I woke up to him randomly sending me a dick pick. Or rather on a very hairy pelvis. Call my old fashion or a stuck up but I would rather have him ask for my consent and send me a picture when I was in the mood.
I just felt a bit uncomfortable and told him that I didn’t like the gesture.
So now he’s trying to comfort me by buying me a dildo. Like a big plastic dick. It’s over 20 centimeter.
Is this actually happening or is just trying to dox me?