Long but true story from a few years back.
I (32M at the time) was newly engaged. I was in some of the best shape of my life, routinely lifting and participating in triathlons. I was also getting settled into my career and I still had free time to enjoy my hobbies. As a newly engaged man I was super confident in myself and I felt impervious to other women even though my libido was raging.
My fiancé had been out of town since the beginning of the week and was returning the next Monday. When we spent time apart we would always tease each other and try not to masterbate to build the sexual tension. I have a fetish with breeding women so saving my loads gets me extra worked up.
I had made plans to spend the weekend with a friend (Tom). We were kicking off the weekend by meeting on a Friday afternoon in San Diego. I was looking forward to winging for Tom (chronically single), smoking cigars, drinking whiskey, and just being a little more rowdy. I was meeting Tom at a bar/restaurant for dinner and drinks to get the evening started. Tom had beat me to the bar so when I walked in I searched for him. I was surprised when I found him sitting with and talking to a beautiful, light skinned, Hispanic girl he had never mentioned. She was attractive on a level well above his (or mine for that matter). She could have been a model.