I wrote this as a success story on r/randomactsofmuffdive but someone suggested I also post here, so here it is. It’s kind of long but if people want more info I’m happy to try to write more.
I had an amazing first encounter last night and after a few hours of sleep I feel the need to write everything down while there’s still this level of excitement and afterglow.
First, I have to say this process is a bit overwhelming. I couldn’t possibly respond to everyone and I even had to sort of “ghost” some people because it just became too much. I’m sorry to everyone who I might have annoyed with my lack of communication along the way.
After a lot of back and forth, and some flirty messaging, I made plans with one of the first guys who responded to my post. I instantly thought he was cute and his description of himself made me melt a little. With 2 kids, planning to meet up was a little hard, so after I finally got my in-laws to agree to watch the kids for the weekend, we made plans to meet at a local bar Saturday night.