So a little backstory, I bartend for private parties occasionally… they pay well and they ask me to do it topless for extra money. Nothing crazy happens it’s just a bunch of guys having fun. My husband belongs to the group and we have an open relationship so it’s a lot of fun. One time, one of the guys told me that he was having a separate party for some of the guys that smoke cigars at a lounge he built outside his house and he would like me to bartend it the way I do here. I agreed as long as my husband could be here. I’m 35 by the way, my husband is 50 and these guys average around 60 or so.
So the big day comes and we drive out. I’m dressed slutty/classy and pouring drinks and flirting. After a couple hours everyone was pretty tipsy including myself. One of the guys said, hey it’s that guys 70th birthday, his wife died a few years ago and he doesn’t have any fun anymore, I don’t suppose you would give him a lap dance? I said I would think about it, they were all very classy, upscale guys, dressed nicely and so friendly. I quickly asked my husband and he said, do whatever you are comfortable with!