My wife went out on a business trip a few years ago after we became comfortable sleeping with other people. She was going to be gone for four days with a few colleagues meeting some new clients.
When she got to her hotel the first night she stayed in while her colleagues went out. She talked to me on the phone most the night as I talked her into going down to the bar to get a drink to find someone to keep her company. She agreed and headed down to the bar.
My wife told me she had a few drinks before deciding to go back up to the room before a man stopped her and asked if he could buy her another drink. She agreed and they talked for awhile. Nothing happened that night but they agreed to get another drink the next night.
The next day my wife had a conference most the day with the new clients and to her surprise the guy she met at the bar happened to be a representative for the company she was meeting with. They acted like they hadn't met but she said he was giving her flirtatious looks the whole day.