You know it happens to women a lot, but let’s be honest, men do it a lot too. You just don’t hear it about it. Short bio of me: am in a relationship with an amazing woman. We allow ourselves little “extras” and we have a relationship that is incredibly fulfilling.
Nicole was a divorcee with three kids, all teenagers. She had divorced in her late thirties, as I learned later, and never really had or looked for another another boyfriend or partner. She had married rather young and I would soon discover she had decided to experience (and enjoy) what she felt she had missed during those years, that is, casual sex with men, especially younger men.
I have an office job and Nicole was my direct boss. A project manager, she was pretty much in charge of the entire company; its new projects, new developments, etc. The company was growing and it was mostly thanks to her and her business acumen.
As for me, I was just coming out of college and happy to find a decent job – not an entry level one – that would easily net me twice what I earned from my previous, pre-graduation job. From what I learned, I had been selected from a pool of over one hundred candidates.