When it comes to marriage, I consider myself to be a lucky guy. My wife Kate is a kindred spirit in many ways, my best friend, a great lover. From day one of our relationship we developed a bond that grew stronger with every month that passed, every goal we set to achieve and yes, every sexual experience. Don’t get me wrong… Our sex life would fall well short of material for a Henry Miller novel but it’s fair to say we have been more adventurous in the bedroom (and out of it at times) than the average couple would care to admit and have crossed a boundary or two which would raise eyebrows if shared beyond the relative anonymity of a web forum – which brings me here.