[Part 1](https://www.reddit.com/user/justherefortheview66/comments/pe4ipx/how_i_m_started_sharing_my_girlfriendf_mfm_part_1/)
We knew a lot of things we wanted to try. Fantasies to be turned into reality. We just didn’t know how to get the right people for it. We set a few rules for who could be included: no close friends, no coworkers. Ideally someone we won’t see again in our day to day life, unless we want to. In a small town where everyne knows each others, it can get tricky.
We tried kinky websites but it just didn’t work for us. There is something about eschanging behind a screen that just kills any aspect of seduction for us. But we had a secret weapon: she was a barmaid. And as you can imagine, there were a lot of guys who would end up drunk around the bar, hoping for a chance to finish the night with the hot barmaid. As the subject would often turn to sex, she could always try to see if there was some kind of interest for group play.