How I (M) started sharing my girlfriend(F) [MFM] Part 2: Going for it

[Part 1](https://www.reddit.com/user/justherefortheview66/comments/pe4ipx/how_i_m_started_sharing_my_girlfriendf_mfm_part_1/)

We knew a lot of things we wanted to try. Fantasies to be turned into reality. We just didn’t know how to get the right people for it. We set a few rules for who could be included: no close friends, no coworkers. Ideally someone we won’t see again in our day to day life, unless we want to. In a small town where everyne knows each others, it can get tricky.

We tried kinky websites but it just didn’t work for us. There is something about eschanging behind a screen that just kills any aspect of seduction for us. But we had a secret weapon: she was a barmaid. And as you can imagine, there were a lot of guys who would end up drunk around the bar, hoping for a chance to finish the night with the hot barmaid. As the subject would often turn to sex, she could always try to see if there was some kind of interest for group play.

How I (M) started sharing my girlfriend(F) [MFM] Part 1: Exploring Fantasies

I dont know how people are able to write those stories. I’ve been trying for years, and every time i get so turn on thinking about it, that it just never happens.

At the time, we had been together for 2 or 3 years already. After the first year, she didn’t have much of a libido, no matter how I was trying to spice things up, massage, vacations, etc. I never gave up, even if I knew that her parents were the same.

The way I am, I get off from my partner pleasure. If she was forcing herself to do things to please me, I would stop her. I’m 100% a pleaser. So at some point, i was trying to make her open up about her fantasies. What kind of dirty mind she has and she’s scared to admit. It didn’t go far, she told standard stuff and other that I already new about i.e. she likes it rough, she likes to be dominated.