I would like to preface this by stating that I am currently writing this from u/vao00’s sofa, blissfully enjoying his company and his looks. English isn’t my first language, nor my second, so feel free to point out any mistakes.
Like you, I came across his post and wondered ‘what if?’. I mean you’re adventurous right? You’ve done mildly to moderately crazy things before. So of course I contacted him, it’s no commitment. You just want to get to know the guy a little. He’s polite, sweet, honest and enthusiastic, overall just good vibes. We decided on a day and just talked a little about ourselves. Maybe it’s naive of me but it felt like he really cared. He checked up on me every now and then, just making sure I was comfortable and reassuring me.
When the day came, M told me I should send my live location to someone I know, for peace of mind. I declined but felt it was gentlemanly of him. I made the trip there, not knowing the wonderful experience awaiting me.