It all began while she had an illness, the medicine for which left her unconcerned and indifferent, toward sex. And even though she was recovering, her libido had fallen off to the point that even talking about sexual activity was an act of futility. I came home one day to find a small anal trainer on the table.
She had always enjoyed light anal sex, I would often take my finger and circle around her anus, rubbing and teasing her there as I would give perform cunnilingus, varying between the intensity of licking and light sucking on her clit and the pressure I would apply to her anus. As she would come closer and closer to climax, she would push against my finger, taking it in, riding it until she came. I used to tease her, saying her g-spot was in her butt. Usually her answer to this was a teasing terse, “What, you have a problem with that”?
Now I had a problem for sure, as she seemed to have lost interest in sex, nothing I was doing to encourage her seemed to be working and now the trainer on the table was a plain sign that for the foreseeable future, she wanted me to please myself.