Heya fellow redditors!
Josh here again and I’ve got another story to share with you all! Anyway, I had this friend, Ava, in college who was technically my girlfriend but I’d never asked her to be mine and that conversation rarely came up. We hooked up a lot of times, we cuddled, went on dates, typical gf/bf stuff. In my head when I was with her, I thought we could just cross that bridge when it came.
After college I got my job and she got hers in a city nearby mine and we sort of just ended it. We texted and snapped each other a frequently after that but it was just as mutual friends, nothing sexual. She had a boyfriend and they were very serious, even had a kid, and the boyfriend even went as far as proposing to her.
Fast forward October 2019 and she and her boyfriend get married, separate in less than 2 months, and then get back together around February 2020. We talked more during her split as she needed an emotional friend and I didn’t try to make any moves as she was very weak emotionally. The now husband and her got along pretty well and they get a place in the my city. Fast forward again March 2020 and the marriage is already rocky.