I had sex with the father of my high school bully. [MM]

When I was in middle school, there was this guy with the same name as me that was a couple grades ahead. I went to a very small school, so we were the only two with the name Jordan.

I guess in his redneck brain that this made me the perfect target. From 7th to 10th grade I was bullied by this dude. I still had plenty of friends and wouldn’t consider myself a overly bullied child, but it was enough to make me despise the guy.

Fast forward to 3 weeks ago. (I’m 23 now) I get a message on dating app for gay men, Grindr, and it’s this really good looking 43 year old. I’ve always been into older men, but I was really attracted to this guy and somehow he looked really familiar.

We talked for a few days and he ended up telling me how he recognized me from a Facebook post and that I went to school with two of his kids. At this point I was extremely curious on who the hell this guy was. So I sent a picture of him to a friend I use to go to school with who knew everyone. She almost instantly got back to me and told me that it was Jordan and Graces, his daughter that I didn’t really know that well, dad.