[group] first time at a swinger’s club

My husband [25m] and I [25f] have been married for almost 5 years. Our sex life is AMAZING, but a few months ago we started toying with the idea of opening up our relationship. We have always been very adventurous with our sex life so swinging just seemed like the next logical step.

So fast forward a few months and we are on vacation. We decided to go to a swingers club. By this point we know that we like full swap, soft swap, and I am very curious about exploring other women sexually but have not had the chance to do anything. We go on a newbie night to see what the swingers club scene is all about. When we get there, there is a large man standing in front of an unmarked front door. It was awkward and intimidating at first but once he knew we were there for the club he was very nice and welcoming. We went in, registered, and then were taken on a tour. The downstairs was a bar area and the upstairs was for play. Upstairs had separate rooms for couples to mess around, 2 large rooms for group sex, a porno room with a large screen, and a few couches. Anything goes except taking pictures.