Pam and I ,Part 3- 1989 New Year’s Eve Day [MF]

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This is a continuation of the story:

[https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/edno1y/pam_and_i_part_1_how_we_met_and_fell_in_love_mf/](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/edno1y/pam_and_i_part_1_how_we_met_and_fell_in_love_mf/)

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The next day we went to the drug store and bought some Lambskins. Yes I said “we”. It was a strange experience for me to be so open about the fact that we were going to fuck each other. It was at this moment that I realized that there was a radical difference in our attitudes about sex. I had a very prudish notion that it was strictly a private thing. Pam on the other hand was very worldly. She went right up to the rack of condoms and picked out the lambskins and said, “These should feel much better for both of us.”

I thought to myself, “I wonder how she knows that they would feel better for both of us. Maybe I am not the first guy who had trouble keeping it up for her with a rubber on.”

Pam and I ,Part 2- !989 New Year’s Eve Eve [MF]

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Over the next two weeks, we talked on the phone only a few times. (These were the days when cell phones were rare, and neither of us was at home.)By the time that I drove down to DC on December 30th, I was almost lovesick. I got to Pam’s house in the Maryland suburbs of DC at 3:30pm. I had talked to Pam on the phone the night before and knew she had an afternoon party gig, so I was not surprised when her sister Kay answered the door when I arrived. When I saw Kay, she reminded me of a 1960’s hippie, a little pudgy with a long brown cotton dress and a long light brown pony tail. As she walked I immediately noticed the unmistakable jiggle of her ample breasts unfettered by a bra. Kay asked how my trip was and we chatted as Kay prepared dinner.

Pam and I, Part 1 – How We Met and Fell in Love [MF]

I had seen Pam several times around the HQs office in DC, but we didn’t really meet until March of 1989. It was at a speakers’ breakfast at a technical conference in DC. I was substituting as a session chairman (the person who introduces the speakers) for a Dr. George Johnson, a renowned expert in the session topic. I had only a passing knowledge of the topic. Pam was one of the speakers at the session. One of the other speakers was Dr. Don Paterson, the expert in my group on the topic. He roped me into substituting the night before.

Funny, I remember him calling my hotel room just as I was about to rub one out before going to bed. LOL. (I had been widowed about 3 years at the time and my sexual desires had returned. I guess you could say that at the time, I was pretty much always horny but still had too much guilt about my first wife, M’s death to start dating.) He told me that they needed a session chair because Dr. Johnson had been called back to Atlanta on a family emergency. I was reluctant but he said they were really in a bind. I said ok, and we agreed to meet in the morning at the speakers’ breakfast.