My wife and I had been seeing each other for a couple months in college before we actually had sex for the first time. She was finishing school and I was a senior in college so at this point, we were starting to take things more seriously instead of little flings here and there. I had known her for a few years before we actually started talking and once we did start talking, I think we both realized that there was something special between us that we didn’t want to rush or ruin.
Anyways, fast forward a couple months into us starting to talk. Like I said, we were both taking everything seriously and had pretty much decided that the next time we hung out that we were going to take the next step. It was nice having it somewhat planned out so that neither of us were surprised and could both mentally prepare.