Now I want to preface this by saying I was not hiding my past hookups from him because I was ashamed or anything. I just didn’t really want him to view me differently. After many times of him asking me, and a few cocktails, I finally told him.
When my now husband and I finally met, we were both 21, I had only been with 1 guy at the time. My highschool boyfriend. We dated from late senior year of highschool until mid-freshman year of college. We had sex but it was not frequent or quite frankly something at the time I really cared about or craved. I do not remember exactly but maybe we only did it a few times. Before and even after him, I didn’t really crave sex. Rarely did I ever masturbate, never really put much thought into it. I guess it probably helped that I didn’t really get alot of attention frim guy’s, and I mostly stayed in my small friend group when it came to socializing.