I knew what I was doing was risky, but it was an addiction and I just couldn’t stop. I had always been bi-curious but hadn’t acted on it, at least not until I was already married. 5 years into marriage and countless online chats with random guys later I finally decided to take the next step. His name was Mike, and by chance we happened to meet in a chat room. He was older, in his 50’s, but 6’2” and in good shape. He said he was dominate, discrete, and hung… which was pretty much what I had fantasized about. Since we were both married we decided it was best to meet at a location other then our homes. We met for dinner and went to a hotel, both of us traveled occasionally for work and used that excuse with our wives.