I had just had a messy break-up with a long-term girlfriend of mine so I recklessly decided to download tinder. One of my first matches was a girl who we’ll call Emma. Emma was a 5ft petite blonde, perfect skin, and beautiful curves in all the right places. For anyone interested in what I look like, I’m 6,1, with messy brunette hair, and I’m british, which was a big hit with women whilst I studied in America. Emma has also just gone through a messy break-up but was after something more serious than I was. Even though this wasn’t exactly what I was after, she was really cool and understood what I was going through so talking to her was a great distraction. I told her that I wasn’t looking for anything serious but surprisingly that didn’t seem to deter her interest.
After chatting for a few days we had planned to meet for dinner the following weekend. A couple of days before our date she asked if she could come around to my place to hang out because she didn’t want to wait until the weekend to meet me. I was shocked that this girl seemed so into me even though it was clear we weren’t after the same thing. I soon learnt that she viewed this as an obstacle that was easy to overcome. She made it clear before coming over that nothing sexual was going to happen so I had no expectations whatsoever.