Author: Intownonbusiness

[M]et a Domme [F]rom kik on a business trip (D/s, foot worship, no sex)

I thoroughly explored D/s sex when I was younger. (I’m 45 now) I always struggled with kink first or relationship first, and ended up in a vanilla marriage, because it always seemed like when I started searching for the kink first, the relationship part was always full of way to many crazy issues.

Much like when I cheat and let my potential partner know very early, I’ll do the same for you my dear reader. If a married man having secret kinky trysts behind his wife’s back is a turn off for you, eject now. But sometimes when I travel for work, I try to scratch that old D/s itch. This is a story about one of those times.

This time I hopped in a kik chat room in the town I was stuck in for a couple of weeks. I had to send a live face pic to the moderator. She happened to be a blonde, Dominant, BBW, and we started chatting. She was no nonsense, but not all fake bossy, and we chatted seamlessly about life and kink, hopping from one and back to the other. Read more »

I [M] was used as an anonymous pussy slave [F]

I used to play in the BDSM world. I would consider myself a mostly sub switch. I ended up in a vanilla marriage, so sometimes when I’m traveling for work, I try to scratch my D/s itch. This is the story of one of those times.

I was in another city on business and posted an ad on Craigslist. (So it’s not one of my more recent adventures) I posted a picture by Namio Harukawa and said I was attractive, emotionally intelligent, and looking for a woman that was selfish about her pleasure. At the time I was around 35 years old.

I got the usual suspects. A guy looking to suck my cock. A guy wanting to know if my ad ever worked. One woman that let me know her time wasn’t free. One woman that asked to see a face picture and then never responded. And spam. Lots of spam.

Then just about the time I was ready to call it a night, she emailed me. It was a picture of a large ass. The person was black. She was 45. She said she was also visiting. She had been through a long day of meetings and a business dinner. She needed a massage, and my mouth, and that I’d get sent away frustrated. Read more »

[M]y favorite time as a pussy slave

I’ve dabbled with D/s play off and on since college. I happened across Anne Rice’s “Sleeping Beauty” before it had her name as the author. It was still published under just the pseudonym. I had no idea I was wired that way. I was so turned on while I read it, that sometimes I would wake up in the middle of the night and jack off.

I started exploring. The fetish community is awesome, but like any niche “hobby”, it can be clique-ish. People trying to impress you with how much they know. People with strong opinions trying to tell you what a “real” Dom, or “real” sub is. People’s self esteem gets wrapped up in how they identify themselves, and where they fit in the community, and it can get weird.

For me, I didn’t really care about labels, or if I was enough of this or too much of that. Lets just have some good up front communication and if it turns us on lets do it. And for me, what really turned me on was playing with a woman that truly got wet at the idea of being in control of a man. Read more »