**DISCLAIMER:** This is my first post; I hope I’m doing this right. TL;DR at the end.
Sophie and I (late 20’s) have been dating for almost a year (our anniversary is tomorrow). We have an active sex life (by our standards) and neither of us have anything to complain about — except for my chronic case of Death Grip. The only way I can cum is to fuck her, hard, at the right angle, while choking her (she loves it, and it makes her extra tight), for several minutes.
In my sluttier years, this was a huge advantage. I can easily go for over an hour (not always appreciated), and I have complete control over when and where I finish. But once Sophie and I started fucking regularly, she would get bummed she couldn’t make me cum. And it’s not for lack of effort: she’s extremely determined. After almost a year, she can give an awesome handjob and deepthroat me all the way, but not even the sloppiest throatfucking could get me across the finish line; I always need to pull out and stroke it for the last thirty seconds.