My best friend’s last hurrah before my graduation [MF]

I met him when I was a freshman in college. I was 18, and had generally had very bad luck with guys. The combination of being a bit of a nerd in high school and coming from a religious Chinese family made me completely insecure when it came to the opposite sex. The men I liked were never really interested in me.

Anyway, moving on, let’s call him Z. I still remember the moment I met him, clear as day. I was introducing myself to my orientation week group, and then I saw him walk up to us. His dark brown hair caught the light, and his similarly dark eyes crinkled into a smile. He was tall, and I could see how toned his arms were under his tight gray shirt.

He was, and is, the most attractive man I had ever laid eyes on.

I was starstruck as he began speaking. He had a deep, velvety voice and a sexy accent. He liked working out. He kept talking. I learned that he….really liked working out.

[MF] Tempted by an older guy I ran into at a party

I’m a 21 year old law student. I go to law school far away from the state where I went to college and grew up. This means I’m away from my boyfriend, who is my age but still in my home state. The last time I saw him was in the summer, which was a few months ago. I was a bit of a late bloomer because I grew up in a very religious (and Asian) household, so he’s the only guy I’ve ever kissed or had sex with. We’ve been long distance for much of our relationship because of COVID and other reasons, which is horrible because, well…a girl got needs. It’s also a problem because my boyfriend can be really immature or inconsiderate, causing some fights and drama which are only made worse by the distance.

Anyway, one time when we were in one of these fights, my law school threw a party at a local bar. The invite said it was cocktail attire, so I put on a little silk shirt I borrowed from a friend and some black pants. It’s freezing outside, so I was in no mood to wear a dress. But once I show up at the dinky little basement, I feel woefully underdressed. All the other girls are walking around in tiny strappy mini dresses, while the guys are all in basically full suits.